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Beautiful Engagement Rings for Women


Engagement rings for women are beautiful, detailed and come in many different styles. While Eco Diamond® offers hundreds and hundreds of styles with tons of variations available for each style once you factor in precious metal choice and center stone shape and size, we definitely see some specific trends and have put together a list of the most popular styles so far in 2018.

The number one most popular engagement ring style now or of all times is the simple classic solitaire.  The solitaire engagement ring is available in lots of variations, but an all-time winner is the solitaire engagement ring in yellow gold.  Classic and simple, while white gold engagement rings have been very popular in recent years, yellow gold engagement rings have proven to stand the test of decade after decade without going out of style.

Second only to the solitaire engagement ring, the single row engagement ring is next on the list of popular engagement ring styles for women.  Like all of our engagement rings, Eco Diamond’s® single row engagement rings are available in 10 karat white and yellow gold, 14 karat white, yellow or rose gold, 18 karat white and yellow gold, palladium and platinum.  Create yours in a variety of single row styles and choose the center stone carat weight that fits her best.

Next, we’re seeing vintage engagement ring styles rising in popularity.  In this category especially, we’re seeing lots of yellow gold engagement rings.  Both yellow and white gold play beautifully with the charming details of our vintage engagement ring styles, and we’re even seeing lots of rose gold too. The beading detail seen in our vintage style rings paired with classic elements make for instant classics.

Split Shank engagement rings are also really popular this year.  Available featuring a variety of center stone shapes, the split shank engagement ring provides a little more sparkle than a single row engagement ring does, and still has clean, simple lines.

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When Might Divorce Be A Good Thing?

For most people, their wedding day is the most important day of their lives, apart from the birth pf their children. Marriages are such a beautiful thing that the thought of ending one makes some people shudder at the thought. Of course, in a perfect world we would find a partner and stay with them forever. However, this is not a Disney movie, and some people do not find their happily ever after at the first time of asking. It is inevitable that some marriages will breakdown, and that is a sad thought. However, it is also a necessary one in certain cases.

You Are No Longer In Love

Getting a divorce for the sake of love sounds like a selfish concept, and it is to a degree. When you get married and have kids, there are other people you have to think about, mainly the kids. Children can be affected by the breakdown of their parents’ marriage because they struggle to understand the concept. But, in the long run, your kids will be able to come to terms with the decision. And, you and your partner can free yourself from a potentially unhealthy and toxic situation.

For The Sake Of The Kids

As we have already touched on, most people might think it is better to stay together for the kids. That way, there is no chance of unsettling them and making them unhappy. Children, however, are far more perceptive than many parents give them credit. Yes, they love the fact that their mum and dad are together, but only when they are happy. If the atmosphere at home because miserable and depressing, it will affect their lives. For the sake of your kids, it is sometimes better to get a divorce and start afresh.




You Cannot Love Yourself

Sometimes, it is hard enough to love yourself. There are people in the world who fight a daily battle against confidence and self-esteem and lose. And the sad thing is that some people just don’t have enough love for another person at that juncture in their life. Although marriage is a two-way street, and your partner loves you for who you are, you need to reciprocate. When you cannot reciprocate the feelings that are essential for a marriage to work, it might be time to take a break and think about the future.

Got Hitched Too Soon

There are plenty of examples of people falling in love and moving too soon. In fact, there will continue to be plenty of examples because love is impulsive. Hopefully, a marriage like this will work in the end. But, because you are learning about each other on the job, these marriages can become suffocating. Unfortunately, when you make an impulsive mistake as big as this one, there is only one option: get in touch with family law services.

Now that we live in the twenty-first century, there is nothing wrong with getting a divorce. If you have given it your all but it still doesn’t work, you might have to throw in the towel for the sake of your family.


Keepsakes from Your Wedding

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Your wedding day will be one of the most memorable days of your life. While it will always stay fresh in your mind, there will be certain keepsakes that you will want to save so you can look at them and think of your wedding day. These keepsake items can vary, depending on your wedding ceremony and your tastes. No matter what keepsakes you choose to keep from your wedding day, it is important to care for them properly so you can enjoy them for many years to come.

Photographs And Videos

Photographs and videos of your wedding ceremony will be some of your most treasured possessions someday. These reminders are some of the most popular things saved from weddings. Hiring a professional photographer and videographer to capture the ceremony and special moments during your wedding or reception will ensure their quality. Store your photos in albums or display them in frames on your walls.

Wedding Dress And Accessories

Many brides save their wedding dresses and have them preserved so they last longer and can be displayed or stored long-term. Other accessories that make good wedding keepsakes include garters, cuff links, jewelry and wedding veils. You can have these items professionally preserved and displayed, so they always look their best. Many women save their wedding dresses and pass them down to their daughters or granddaughters to wear at their own weddings.

Most couples make a CD of their favorite songs to play at their weddings. You may someday want to listen to that music or play it for your children or friends. You may decide to make your own CD or have one made by a DJ. By saving your wedding music as a keepsake, you can hold on to a special part of your wedding for many years. You can make several copies of your CD in case you are afraid that you might damage or lose the original.

Guest Book

If you want to remember all of the people who attended your wedding or reception, you can place a guest book at the ceremonies. Guests will write their names and sometimes contact information in the book. You can look back on the book and remember everyone who attended your wedding. Many people keep their wedding guest books as a keepsake and either store it in a safe place until they want to look at it or display it, like on a coffee table, for everyone to see and enjoy.

You will put a lot of time, money and emotion into your wedding day. While you will never forget that special day, it will be nice to have a few keepsakes that you can look at, watch, or listen to whenever you want to reminisce about your wedding ceremony. You may choose to save one of these popular keepsake items, or you may have different things that you want to keep as a memory of your wedding day. Regardless of what items you choose, make sure they are properly cared for, preserved, protected and stored, so you will always have them in their original condition. You may some day choose to pass your wedding keepsakes on to your children or grandchildren for their wedding day(s).

Wedding Day Photos


The wedding album is one of the most special mementos that a couple may share. This keepsake might be filled with many of the best shots taken at the event, from images of the bride tossing her bouquet to shots of the bride and groom cutting the first slice of wedding cake. Some photos are absolutely essential, and they must be included in any wedding album. Whether a couple prefers all traditional photos, uniquely posed shots, or a combination of both, the album that they keep should be a reflection of their two styles and personalities.

Before the Ceremony

Some of the best shots might be taken before the ceremony begins. The photographer might capture a depiction of the mother of the bride zipping up the bride’s gown just before the wedding takes place. In fact, arranging for several shots of the bride as she is getting her hair and makeup done is advisable. During this time, a bride can look both vulnerable and radiant, and such images will be especially meaningful later. Plenty of other photo opportunities are apt to manifest before a wedding. A picture might be taken of the groom and his party as they wait for the wedding to begin. Shots of the bridesmaids should be taken, along with photos of both sets of future in-laws. Other essential images include shots of the flower girls and ring bearer.

During the Ceremony

One of the most precious images from the day could be the delight of the groom as he first glimpses his bride making her way down the aisle. This is a once-in-a-lifetime moment, and it must be captured for posterity. Photos should also be taken as each person in the wedding party makes an entrance, from the flower girl to the groomsman to the bride. Another crucial image is the depiction of the couple exchanging vows. A shot of the couple’s first kiss after the vows might be given a soft lighting effect before being framed.

After the Ceremony

Shots taken directly after the ceremony should depict the joy and exhilaration of the moment. This is a good time to catch images of the parents of both the bride and the groom. This is also an opportune time to get pictures of the bride and groom as they leave the church. A classic wedding depiction is a shot of the guests tossing rice or confetti as the bride and groom leave for the reception.

Scenic shots can also serve as special reminders of the day. If the wedding is being held at a chapel in the countryside, a shot of the bride and groom standing in front of the rolling landscape could be exquisite. If the wedding location is a beach, images of the ocean behind the wedding party could be worth framing and hanging on a living room wall.

The Reception

A wedding photographer’s job does not end immediately after the ceremony. The reception will provide a broad array of opportunities to take lovely photographs. Such moments include the cutting of the cake, the arrival of the newly married couple, and the bouquet being tossed by the bride. Other great shots may be taken of the décor, cuisine, floral arrangements, and reception venue. Shots of the wedding party and the guests dancing are often fun images to capture and to view later.

Ideally, a wedding album will depict all of the special moments throughout the day. While all of these photographs are important, some may be especially meaningful. From the time the bride begins to get dressed to the moment the newlyweds leave the reception, a photographer might capture an array of images that illustrate a unique and special story.

Dating Has Started Becoming Eco-Friendly


There are more and more dating sites being introduced online, but during the summer of 2014 paper bags made their way into the dating game.

Loveflutter, a UK dating app, introduced a PR event that urged 35 Londoners to meet other singles with a paper bag on their head. Since then, paper bag dating has really picked up steam. Loveflutter created the event in order to raise awareness about their new dating app, little did they know it would open up a great opportunity for singles to join in a new craze.

The paper bag over their heads urged them to forget about how the other singles looked and to learn about the person underneath the bag. They had to write small bits of text all over the bag which helped others to read interesting things about them, rather than focus on the visuals. The participants get just a few minutes to illustrate the bag and make it look individual before popping it on their head and going round to meet other people.

The eco-friendly take on speed dating has hit the love scene by storm and continues to be a great ice-breaking tactic. At first it can be a little strange but once people get passed the weirdness, the atmosphere becomes a very relaxing one where people can learn about new people without having to worry what they look like.

Once the event has finished, participants can take their paper bags home as a souvenir and can even use and re-use it again if they decide to give it another go in the future. Now meeting Mr or Mrs Right has never been easier, and you get to help the environment in the process too.

Paper bag speed dating is the future of meeting the ‘one’, so if you are looking for a creative way to meet that special someone, why not go along and give it a go.

Helping Loved Ones in Recovery


Drug addiction is tough, and drug recovery is even tougher. When it comes to drug addiction in loved ones, especially in our own kids, we want to believe that treatment will solve everything. That they will go to rehab, get cured, and never look back.

Unfortunately, that’s not always the case. The truth is that 40 to 60 percent of addicts will relapse at least once during their recovery, often within the first year of sobriety. There are several reasons why this happens and the more friends and family member learn about the obstacles recovering addicts face, the better they can assist with the addict’s recovery.


As part of the recovery process, your loved one might need to sever ties with old friends and acquaintances, especially if they played a part in his addiction. This can lead to a sense of isolation because while the old friends might be a bad influence, it can be difficult for your loved to cultivate new friendships – especially if the new friends don’t know about his history of addiction. Additionally, relationships with family members could be strained, leading to an even deeper sense of isolation. This disconnectedness from others could lead your loved one to return to those old bad relationships and to drugs and alcohol.

One option is for the friends and family to attend counseling to learn how to interact with the loved one after recovery, and to help heal any old wounds. Another option is for your loved one to enter a transitional living situation.

Programs like Tucson Transitional Living allow people in recovery to live in a group setting with others their age who are also going through recovery. These programs also offer family workshops to help repair damaged family relationships. As a result, your loved one will have the social support he needs to stay sober.

Heavy Emotions

Stress is the most common cause of relapse. Rehabilitation programs do offer some stress management training, but once your loved one leaves the relatively safe confines of the rehab program, she might have a difficult time putting those theories into practice. Although stress is the biggest culprit, it’s not the only one; getting broadsided by an emotional situation, even a positive one, can push someone in recovery over the edge.

For example, your loved one might be worried about returning to school for fear of having to repeat a grade. When she contacts the school she discovers that the school is willing to let her graduate on time if she attends regular meetings, does extra credit, and maintains a certain GPA. She could be so excited at the good news that she decides to celebrate with her favorite drink; conversely, she could also be so anxious about the tasks she has to complete that she takes something to calm her nerves.

You can’t control your loved one’s reaction to heavy emotions. In many cases, the best thing you can do is let her know that you have her back, and help her find ways of coping with the emotions without using drugs. In the example above you could offer to take her somewhere without drugs or alcohol to celebrate. You could also offer to help her complete her tasks, within reason.

Exposure to Drugs or Alcohol

One of the most common ways recovering addicts are exposed to drugs is through prescription medications.

For example, Philip Seymour Hoffman rehabilitated in his 20s and was sober for over 20 years when he started abusing pain medication, possibly as a result of a prescription for an injury.

In some cases your loved one might be able to request a non-narcotic alternative, but there might be other times when the only option is a drug that could trigger a relapse.

Another scenario is where your loved one knowingly ingests a mind-altering substance, believing that they can handle it. This could be prescription medication, alcohol or an illicit drug. It could be the substance that they were originally addicted to, or some other substance that starts a new cycle of addiction.

You can’t keep your loved one in a bubble, but one way to reduce the risk of exposure is to avoid having mind-altering substances in the house. If you must have them, like prescription medications, keep them under lock and key. If your loved one has been prescribed narcotic medications, talk to his doctor about alternatives or, suggest your loved one do so if he is an adult.

If you suspect that your loved one has relapsed, do not lose patience and to not ignore the situation. Be prepared to stage a loving intervention, if necessary, to get them the treatment and support they need.

Christmas Present Ideas That Will Get Your Kids Outside

Your child or children will probably have already signed, sealed and delivered their letter to Santa. If you have a typical 21st century child, they will have asked for video game consoles and other items which confine them to the indoors. If you are looking for ways to encourage your children to spend more time outside then, we have come up with some ideas that will achieve exactly that.

Adventure day out

‘Experience gifts’ can also be enjoyed by kids of all ages. If you do your homework, you will see that there are a number of options for days out that will please even the fussiest of children. For older children, why not let them experience their first drive. The package usually includes an hour-long tuition with a qualified instructor and, if you child feels brave enough; they might be able to take the wheel themselves. Alternatively, you might want to treat your kids to a day of quad biking, horse riding or even a hot air balloon ride. These experiences will not only get your kids off the sofa but will give them something to remember for many years to come.

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Outdoor equipment

A good way of encouraging your children to get some fresh air is to provide them with plenty of outdoor equipment. You may decide on an electric scooter for kids that is not only fun but will make that walk to school a bit quicker! Although they won’t be able to use it for a few months, a trampoline is a fantastic gift for kids. This present will get your kids outdoors and keep them active. If your child likes playing football computer games, he or she may also appreciate a set of football goals and a football. This may encourage your child to take this interest outside, and they may involve their friends in a weekly kick about. You might consider buying your child a bike. This gift will get your kids out and about and doing tricks in no time. For the winter months, your child might also enjoy a sledge or a set of snowshoes.

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If your child is naturally creative, them a simple box of colourful chalk may entice them outside. Allow them to draw to their heart’s content on your garden patio or pavement outside your home. Small children may really enjoy a grow your own plant kit. You can spend the day outside together digging up the soil and planting the seeds. Their interest in the outdoors will, hopefully, remain as they watch the plant grow. A build your own bird feeder kit is another great gift that will encourage your child to take an interest in the outdoors and nature. You may wish to invest in a small outdoor house for your child. This could be a playhouse or a tree house. This might work well to encourage your kids to spend time outside as it gives them an area they can call their own. You may wish to encourage them to use this space to draw or read.

Family Matters: How To Deal With Your Parents Aging

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When your parents begin to get old, it can be a troubling time. There is nothing nice about watching your parents age, but age catches up with everybody in the end. One thing that nobody ever tells you is that there are many issues age can cause your parents and your family. When people get older, they begin to lose their independence. That means that your parents might become reliant on your for support as they get old. For many people, the realization that their parents are aging is tough. Here are some of the ways in which you can deal with your parents getting older.

Driving problems

There comes a time in everybody’s life when driving is no longer safe. As their child, you are responsible for ensuring that your parents are safe. That means that you need to make sure that your parents still drive in a safe way as they get old. When you see your parents driving, you should check whether they seem safe. If one or both of your parents are losing their eyesight, it is unsafe for them to drive. Telling somebody you love that you think their driving is unsafe will be hard. Your parent is likely to take the news in a bad way. Make sure that you break the news to them in a nice manner.

Health issues

Dealing with health issues in your parents is difficult. We all want our parents to live good, long lives. You should make sure that your parents have a comprehensive health insurance policy. Having access to the best medical care will mean that your parents can get the right treatment when they need it. Your parents might not like it, but you should insist that they get regular check-ups at the hospital. As people age, they tend to avoid going to the doctors because they fear bad news. Your parents need to know about any health issues they have, and so you should make sure that they go to the doctors.

Traveling and vacations

When people get to a certain age, they will find it hard to get travel insurance. That means that it may no longer be safe for them to travel. When you decide to take a trip with your parents, you should make sure that you can get insurance for them before you book. If you can’t get insurance, that is because the insurer believes that the journey won’t be safe for your parents. Make sure that you see whether you can get insurance before booking a huge family vacation.

Housing problems

If your parents are struggling to cope in their home, you can try and offer them some support. Make sure that you make regular visits to your parents so that you can help them with their daily tasks. If you don’t live near to your parents, you might want to consider moving so that you can be close to them. If there comes a time when you can’t help your parents as much as they need, look into senior living housing for them. In a retirement home, your parents will get all the attention they need.

Memory loss

When a parent starts to lose their memory, it can be heartbreaking. It can feel as though your parent is slipping away from you bit by bit. When you notice that one of your parents is having trouble remembering things, you must get medical help for them. Often you can help reduce memory loss with some expert help. See a doctor, who specializes in memory loss. Doing so will mean that your parent gets the best help.

An Amazing Guide To Coping With Divorce When You Have Kids

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Separation and divorce is a natural part of life. Not all marriages work out, and you shouldn’t feel any shame if your married life is coming to an end. If you have children, it is vital that you do what’s best for them. Your divorce can have a negative impact on your children’s lives, and so you need to make the transition as easy as possible. When you’re getting a divorce, it is important that you give your children all the care and support they need. It can be hard, but you need to put aside your feelings and think about your children. Here is an amazing guide to coping with divorce when you have kids.

Shield them from the technicalities

Divorce is a technical business. There are things to discuss and papers to sign. The process might take weeks or months to complete. The last thing you want to do is drag your children through the process with you. They don’t deserve that at all. Book an appointment with Beacon Family Law consultation in Perth, but make sure you have somebody to watch the kids. The worst way your children can find out about your divorce is through a series of legal discussions.

Sit them down together to talk

Divorce is a huge deal. Many families leave the explanation of their divorce to just one parent. It has to come from both of you. Despite the fact that you are separating, you need to present a united front. Your children have grown up with both of you. One of the major problems with divorce is that children see you as two separate entities. That means that they might start trying to play you off against each other. Showing that the divorce doesn’t change the relationship you have with your children is the best way to go.

Arrange a step by step plan

What is your plan for after the divorce? Many people rush into a divorce without ever talking about what they will do next. Which of you will be moving out of the marital home? Where will they live? You need to make sure that you have a plan of action in place. The transition period needs to be as smooth as possible. Your children shouldn’t see you arguing about things. You need to explain to them what is going to happen.

Give them extra love and attention

During this period, your children will need more attention than usual. Many parents make the mistake of focusing on themselves, when they should be caring for their kids. Make sure that you show your children that they are still important. When parents divorce, children can sometimes feel as though they are unimportant. Your children’s identities depend on the family unit. They look up to you as parents and learn from you. Your children will need extra support and reassurance. Make sure that your children feel stable in the family home. Tell them that they won’t lose either parent and that they won’t have to move. Reassuring your children that their lives won’t change will make them feel much better.

Try not to disrupt their home life

Your children have a routine that they follow every week. It is important that you try not to disrupt that routine too much. Sometimes there is nothing you can do about disruptions. Wherever possible, you should keep things stable for your children. That level of stability will make the entire process easier in the long run. Let your children keep their routines. You should never use your children as ammunition or stop them doing things out of spite.

Ideas To Help You Encourage Your Children To Spend More Time Outdoors

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There is no doubt about it; our kids are spending too much time indoors. They either watch television or play video games for hours on end. Yes, it is easy to cure that problem; unplug the television and throw the games console away. But as the children say; what else is there for them to do? We are an overprotective nation, and we don’t let our little ones out to play anymore. The dangers are no greater now than they ever were, we just hear about them more thanks to the internet. Our children are suffering because of our anxieties, and it is wrong. If something isn’t done about it soon, those who never get to go out unsupervised with their friends will be at a significant disadvantage in life.

I will write more about allowing your children to play away from home without supervision in my next article. It is all about managing the risk. For today, I wish to suggest ways you can encourage them to use your garden more than they do now. It isn’t hard, but you must make an effort to turn the garden into an appealing place for them. Here are a few top tips to help you achieve your goal.

Water Sports

Buy a swimming pool. It is likely to be a massive investment, but it is worth every penny, in my opinion. You can now find fibreglass pool liners online that cut the installation costs and time by half. The filtration equipment and heater comes in kit form too, so they are a DIY job at last.

Alternatively, you could buy a freestanding unit. It will probably not be as big as a sunken pool and will cost about the same. The pool is good for their physical health and gives you a fantastic reason to spend more time together.

Outdoor Entertainment

Your little ones will know the program listings very well, and they will try to go back indoors when a show starts. Why not take the TV outdoors so they can enjoy the fresh it while they watch it. The guys at say that the products are safe to use and weatherproof. Garden television is the future as far as I am concerned.


Modern gazebos are more like detached conservatories these days. You kids will want to spend time out there because it is such an appealing space. Maybe they could use it as a place to do their homework, or to sit with friends who come round to visit. They will ask you if they can take the video games console out there; the decision is yours.


Swings and slides are as popular today as ever. The best structures also feature a climbing frame and are made from timber that will last for many years. Your kids will have many adventures out there and will come to no harm as long as you have the foresight to put a soft base down in case they fall. I suggest you use a product made from recycled tyres. They are bouncy and durable.

It is much better to tempt kids outside rather than force them. When you install the best features, they will be powerless to resist. Good luck with your mission; perseverance will pay off.