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Getting Out and About in Spring

Getting Out and About in Spring

After being cooped up inside all winter, with Spring on the way and lighter nights meaning more time to play out, it’s essential to encourage your kids to get out and about this Spring. We’re so used to children now spending their evenings sat inside playing on their x-box or watching TV that it’s really important to push your children to play outside for their health and fitness. Here’s some top tips to get them back out enjoying the great outdoors:

Get them a new toy

Whether it’s a bike, pair of roller blades or a scooter, kids love having something to play outside on and there’s nothing more exciting than showing off your new toy to all of the other kids on the street. Scooters tend to be the most on trend with children of all ages been seen scooting around. Once your kids have their own new transport mode this also opens lots of doors for family bike rides and trips to the park plus it means they’ll be keeping fit and getting in lots of healthy exercise.

Arrange family days out

Going for a walk around a reservoir or heading out for a long walk in the countryside is a great way to be active as a family and the mild spring weather provides the perfect climate. If you’re heading out for the day, why not make up a picnic to enjoy somewhere in the sun for a rest and remember to pack a raincoat in your bag just in case you get caught out by a surprise April shower.

Flying toys

One of the best ways to encourage kids to get outside is to invest in a flying toy. Although some can be dangerous if left unsupervised, traditional toys like Frisbees and kites still provide a lot of fun. If your child is after something more technologically advanced, an electric toy helicopter or plane will perhaps be more impressive but arguably much more expensive.

Whether its games, family walks or something new, hopefully your children won’t need too much encouragement to get out this Spring, but if they have become a little too comfortable with staying indoors these tips and tricks should help you to prise them outdoors to benefit from the fresh air.


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Preparing your Toddler for a Sibling


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We read a lot about preparing for your first child. What equipment will be needed, how to baby-proof the home, how to plan etc. In some respects you might be feeling like a bit of a pro by the time your second child is due. However, there is much less written about preparing for a second child, though this also requires a lot of thinking and planning. Many mums worry about how to prepare their toddler for a new sibling. How will he or she cope with a younger brother or sister? How will you manage to get them both up and dressed each morning? What about meal times?

A Change in Focus

The last time around you were starting from scratch. You didn’t know what baby products to buy, how to prepare your home, how to decorate the nursery or what to expect. This time will be different. You have the knowledge and experience from the last couple of years. You can now change your focus and work out how to incorporate a new little person into the family unit. And if you need a bit of a refresher of preparing for a newborn this article will jog your memory.

Preparing your Toddler

There is no need to tell your toddler straight away. For a toddler, nine months might as well be nine years. Tell them nearer the time when the event will be more immediate. Involve them as much as possible. Ask for their help and involve them in sorting out the nursery or toys.

Enjoy this Time Together

Soon your threesome (or twosome) will be coming to an end. You will have a wonderful addition to the family but the dynamic will change. Make the most of this time together. Celebrate the days when it is just the two or three of you. Plan some special activities you can do as a family.

Prepare in Advance as Much as Possible

This is easier said than done. Try and prepare in advance as much as possible. If you have time, cook and freeze some meals to keep you going for the first few weeks. Accept help. This can be difficult for some people but if there are family and friends around you who are willing and able to help, let them. Listen to these mums talk about their feelings when preparing themselves for their second child.

Bringing the Baby Home

Think carefully about the birth itself and how to handle this with your toddler. When they come to visit you in hospital, remember that they will have missed you. It may be a day or more since they saw you. Make a fuss of them and tell them how much you have missed them.

Try to arrange to take the new baby home together so that you all arrive at the same time.

Include them as much as possible. Allow them to sit with you during feeding. Make sure it is clear to your toddler that there are times just for you and him / her. During these times say openly to the baby that you’re helping your toddler right now.

Above all enjoy these times together. They go so quickly. Cherish the time you have with your toddler and then celebrate the new member of the family when he or she arrives. It can be a challenging time and there will be stresses and strains. But it will also be a beautiful and joyous time. Remember to celebrate that.


Making Your Home Bigger For A Growing Family

As our family grows, we start about moving to a bigger home. A place with a larger garden, more rooms and more space. We think about upscaling and begin the difficult process of choosing a new place to live. But, what if things could be simpler? What if, rather than moving to a bigger place, we made our old home bigger. That’s my advice for you today. Instead of going through the stress of moving, see if you can improve your old home. You might find this a far more enjoyable experience. You’ll be able to craft your home into what you want it to be. So, what are the options for doing this?


The biggest job you can complete when making your home more spacious is an extension that All Professional Remodeling Group, LLC can help you with. Or, you could be adding a new room in your home. You could even be adding a new floor, building on top of your garage. There are numerous possibilities here. You have to decide which one is right for you. The biggest issue about building an extension is to get planning permission. It’s important you get this from your local council before you begin the expansion. If you don’t, you could find yourself breaking the law. This permission usually takes four weeks to two months to be granted. After that, you can move forward with the extension.

Your next step is to decide what you need and want for your extension. For instance, you may need new electricity and water lines. If that’s the case, you will need to hire both an electrician and a plumber. It’s best to get these jobs completed by a professional, even if you are completing the rest of the work by yourself. Also, don’t forget to set a budget for your expansion. These projects can quickly grow out of control.

Attic Conversion


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Of course, if you don’t want the trouble of extending, or you don’t have the room, you can opt for a conversion. One suggestion is to convert the attic into a new bedroom. I suggest you start by cleaning out and getting rid of anything that you are storing in the attic. Once you have done this, you should make sure that the floor is stable is okay to walk on. After that, you can think about how much work needs to be done. Some modern attics are already designed with the possibility as using them for an extra room. Others need a little more work. If you need to raise the ceiling, you might find you have some roofing work that needs doing. Your roof could need a remodel. You can also consider adding other features such as a skylight. Remember, this is going to be someone’s bedroom. You want it to be stunning.

As well as this, when completing a job, you should keep in mind a future sale. While you are not selling right now eventually, you might make the move. A job like this done right can add huge value onto your home.

I hope you have found this information useful. Have fun improving your home.


My Guide For Helping Your Family Settle Into A New Home

Moving into a new property can be a very exciting time. The whole family will probably help you on the day, but then you’re left to deal with matters yourself. Settling in is often an issue when you have children. They will feel a little scared to find themselves in a new bedroom at night. There are lots of things you can do to make the transition easier. I’ll give you some helpful advice today that should help to improve the situation. All you have to do is use some common sense and try to make the move seem like an enjoyable experience.

Keep the children away on moving day

Young people can often find change rather stressful. With that in mind, you should get someone else to look after them while you relocate. They will only get bored and frustrated if you keep them around. You can welcome your children into their new home once all the boxes have been delivered. Those of you with a little more cash to spend might buy a premium professional service. Some removals companies will even unpack your items and set the rooms up as you request.

Sort their bedrooms first

It doesn’t matter if your living room and kitchen are sorted during the first week of moving into a new property. However, you’ll need to get the kid’s bedrooms sorted as soon as possible. You want them to feel comfortable in familiar surroundings. So, try to keep things the same as they were in your previous home. That way, they will find it easier to fall asleep at night. You can make changes further down the line when you perform alternative renovation work. Until then, you need to ensure your children recognise their bedrooms.

Buy them a new bed

There is nothing quite like falling asleep in a new bed. Experts at John Ryan By Design say the first time you sleep on a new mattress you always get a better night’s sleep. That is very true. So, investing in a new bed frame and mattress for your special little ones could be perfect. The rest of their bedroom will still look the same, and so there is no need to worry. The only difference is they will feel like they’re floating on thin air. Of course, that only lasts for the first few nights while they’re breaking in the new item.


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The only other things you need to worry about relate to meal times. You should try to keep the same routine you used at your last property. Make sure you erect your dining room table straight away, so you can still sit down and eat food together. Routines are important to children because they help them to ignore potentially stressful situations. So long as you can keep their minds active, they shouldn’t get too worked up in your new home. Maybe you should involve them in the process of decorating their rooms? Kids love to be creative and a little more independent. Just make sure you’re happy with pictures of Frozen characters on the walls because that’s what they’ll probably want.

Relocating Your Family? Here’s What You Need To Think About

A few years ago I uprooted and relocated my entire family. Let me tell you, it wasn’t easy. There was a lot to think about and at one point it seemed like it was going completely downhill. When you move home with kids, it’s more than just finding the right home. It’s all about finding the right home for them. And of course, if you’re thinking about increasing your family size, the right home for the future. Already the problems are starting to pile up, and I’m sorry to tell you that is just the tip of the iceberg.

A Home With Enough Space

Usually, if you are moving house with a family, it is for one of two reasons. Either you are moving because of a job opportunity or you are relocating because you need a bigger place for your kids to grow up in. Moving to get more space is easier because you have the possibility of staying in roughly the same location. That cuts out a lot of problems like dealing with your kids changing schools and losing contact with their friends. If you’re moving to a bigger place, your biggest issue becomes getting the best price on your old home. Then, you can pay a far bigger deposit and get a more attractive deal on the mortgage.

The answer to this particular issue is all to do with style and design. You need to make your home look more expensive than it actually is. I’ll let you in on a little secret of how I did this. I sold it as the perfect place to raise a family but when it was on the market my kids weren’t living there! They were staying with my parents, so the house looked absolutely perfect. There was no mess, no fuss and no problems. It looked like a showroom and needless to say it was a quick, easy, sale.


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2) Cutting Costs

Of course, if you are relocating for a job you might be looking at practicality and saving money. First, you’re going to have to decide how far from your new job you’re going to live. If you’re working in the city, then you might be better off buying an apartment rather than commuting every day. Don’t be put off by this idea, there are some incredibly luxurious apartments on sale that would be perfect to raise your family in. That way your home will be close to where you or your partner is working. For some examples of some stunning apartment designs, visit

3) Making It Easier On The Kids

If you don’t get your kids involved in the move, I guarantee they are going to make it a nightmare. Start by including them in the choice of the home you buy. You are not really taking their opinion on board, but they don’t know that. By doing this, you give them the sense that this move is for them as well as you. Also, where you can, make the move fun. If you are going to moving far away, treat house hunting as a holiday, exploring different locations.

Using these tips you can make the relocation of your family relatively pain-free.


Securing Financing for Your Family Vehicle

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Getting a car for your sixteenth birthday may be the best gift ever, but buying a car can be a tedious and difficult process. For most people, buying a car isn’t a simple decision and, aside from a house, it’s probably the most expensive thing a family will ever buy. According to CAR-Research XRM, choosing the right vehicle for the family’s needs and finances means considering a great number of variables. In most cases, people shopping for a new car don’t have the money to pay in cash and will pay for the car on a payment plan, either from the dealer or through a direct loan with a bank, finance company, or credit union. Keep reading to find out what you need to know about securing financing for your family vehicle.

Vehicle Financing Options

There are two options for financing a vehicle: dealership financing and direct lending.

Dealership Financing

When choosing vehicle financing through a dealership, the buyer simply enters into a contract with the dealer to repay the amount of the loan, plus interest, over a set period of time. This type of financing can be convenient, since you can take care of it right there on the day you sign the paperwork, and might grant you access to special deals or incentive programs.

Dealership financing isn’t without its drawbacks, though. It’s worth noting that even you sign a contract for financing through a dealership, it is common practice for that contract to be sold to a bank or finance company (the assignee), which then handles all account transactions and payments.

Direct Lending Advantages & Disadvantages

Direct lending, in contrast, is done by taking out a loan directly from the bank, finance company, or credit union. The payment works similarly, with the amount being paid over an agreed upon period of time along with interest and fees. Once the contract is drawn up with the bank, the loan can then be used to pay for the vehicle.

Most consumers choose to take out a loan directly from a bank, credit agency or lender. For those with good credit, this option often offers the best interest rates. Working directly with the bank can offer a number of benefits including security, familiarity with the lending agency, and the ability to compare and choose from a broad range of loan terms available from a number of institutions.

Advantages of Direct Lending

Choosing to finance a car purchase through a loan from a bank gives the person the ability to shop around for the best lenders. With a little bit of research, buyers can rule out loans with high interest rates, seek out institutions with a good reputation and ultimately find the best loan for their family’s needs. Banks also offer a number of additional services when issuing car loans, such as helping with mortgages or applying a home equity line of credit for the loan. Many banks even give pre-approved car loans so the person knows exactly what they can afford before they even set foot in the dealership to browse.

Direct Lending Drawbacks

There are, of course, some possible downsides to choosing a bank loan. Some banks aren’t particularly keen on making auto loans and may offer unfavorable interest rates to discourage individuals, or banks may not want to finance customers with whom they don’t already have a history. Furthermore, dealing with a third-party for the loan may not be as convenient as just dealing directly with the dealership, or there could be incentives offered by the dealership that make financing through them a better choice.

The best advice for securing financing for your family’s vehicle is to do your research. Make sure you’re familiar with all the financial jargon you might come across and read up on the options available to you. With a little bit of legwork in advance, you’ll be better prepared to secure financing for a family vehicle.

This article was contributed on behalf of CAR-Research XRM, a company that helps you do business. Check out their website today and see how they can help you!

Helpful Tips for Families Who Frequently Relocate


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Some families settle down in the same house for their whole lives, perhaps even passing it down the generations. But others move around much more, whether it’s into different homes in the same town or even around the world. For example, one or both parents might be in the military or have a job with assignments in different locations. Moving around a lot can be tough on the whole family, but it’s often the best option to keep everyone together. Settling into your new home every time can be a challenge, but with the right choices everyone can feel happier.

Choose the Right Home

One thing to consider when you’re moving around is the place you’re going to live in. You might only be there for a short time, so you need somewhere that can quickly feel like home. There are lots of things you might want to consider, from the furniture to the neighborhood. Looking at furnished apartment rentals with community amenities could be best for families who want to settle in quickly and get to know the neighbors. If you’re moving abroad, you might consider living somewhere with a large expat community to help you make friends. You might need a home that you can rent on a short-term contract too if you won’t be staying long.

Add Personal Touches ASAP

When you move a lot, it can be a struggle to make anywhere feel like home. That’s why you should add personal touches to your new accommodation as soon as you can. Don’t leave boxes lying around when you move in. Get unpacked at the first chance and put everything in its place. Use family photos, posters, and favorite artwork to leave your mark and make this new territory feel like it belongs to you.

Help Kids Integrate

Moving home can be hard for your children, whether you’re moving to a new city or another country. They’ve had to leave their friends and school behind, as well as all the areas they know well. Choosing the right home will give them a better opportunity to settle in, by picking somewhere with other children or teenagers nearby. You can also live in a place with community areas or with activities like sports clubs and classes close by. Give them lots of opportunities to get to know children their own age, especially when they can spend more time with them than just an hour or two a week.

Join Social Groups

It’s not just the kids who can struggle to make friends in a new place. If you find it hard to get to know new people when you move, you can make it easier. Apart from getting to know people at work, there are always others who frequently relocate and need new friends. You’re sure to find some local social groups, whether it’s a book club or just some people who meet up for coffee.

Moving home frequently is fun for some people, but can be stressful too. If you find it difficult to settle in, these tips will hopefully help you do it quicker.

How To Make Your House Feel Like Home For Your Family

We all love it when our house is neat and tidy. We like to buy new furniture, ornaments and accessories. We may even spend a small fortune redesigning parts of our house. But we have to realise, this is for us. This is not to make our entire family happy or comfortable. Certainly, these things may improve their living. But it mainly it is our choice and our gain. Here is some advice on how to make your family feel happy at home.

Their Bedroom is Their Bedroom

This is crucial. If you like, think of your children’s bedrooms as a separate entity from the rest of the house. As long as they agree to keep it clean and tidy, let them decorate it however they wish. Remember, the rest of the house is yours. But it is important for them to have one place in the house they feel definitely is theirs. This includes the colour of the wall and the type of furniture. You can also consider letting them choose their bed and decorations like posters and curtains. Obviously, we are talking about older children, not toddlers. Feel free to decorate young children’s bedrooms however you like.

A Place That Is Yours

It is important that they have a place to call their own, but you need such a room too. This may be a room where pets and mess are not allowed. You can decorate it in a way that is delicate. For example, you could hire a flooring and decking company to lay down some polished, hard wood floors. Treat yourself. Let this room be your haven. Do not worry about family time because we recommend you design a room for that too.

A Place For Everyone

You also require a room for your family. A place that mess and art are allowed. This can be anywhere in the house, but we do recommend you have one. You are going to have a section of the house where certain members of the family are not permitted.  So, you also need one where all can express themselves freely. You can even consider this a place for play and art. If you do not have a separate room for this, we suggest the kitchen as it is the easiest place to clean up.

Work In Style

Technology has rapidly improved to the point where you can work from almost anywhere. Even from your bed. But you should have a room designed specifically for doing work. This will have desks, chairs, and maybe even a small library of books. You should encourage any children you have to work in here. If you work on your bed, your mind thinks this is the place for working. You will stop getting that good night’s sleep you need.

As you can see, our advice is to have separate rooms for individual requirements. But you should consider other things too. It is so important for your family to be happy at home. The world outside can be stressful. Their house is a place they should feel comfortable and be able to relax without worry.


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Essential Home Security Advice For Keeping Your Family Safe

When it comes to keeping your family home safe and secure, you should spare no expense. The last thing you want is to come home from a night out to find that someone had broken in and stolen all your valuables. Luckily, there is some fantastic technology around these days that could help to make sure that never happens. To give you a helping hand, we’re going to mention some of the most vital steps you need to take on this page. We hope that publishing the information will mean more people take the right precautions. After all, it’s only your family that will suffer if you fail to take heed.

  • Get a good alarm

The very first thing you need to do is head out and get a good house alarm. Ideally, you should aim to spend a few hundred dollars to ensure you are getting a premium product. You should also ensure the alarm you select comes with an array of motion sensors. That will mean nothing can move in your house without it going off. If you have dogs and cats at home, you will have to get used to putting them in an area of the property that your sensors can’t see. Otherwise, your neighbors are sure to make some complaints.

  • Consider CCTV

CCTV around the exterior of your property should help to capture any illegal behavior on tape. That is handy if a criminal manages to get inside your home because you will have HD video of their actions. That will help to make the police’s lives easier when it comes to finding the person and bringing them before the courts.

  • Take self-defense classes

Nobody wants to think about what might happen if a criminal breaks into their home while they are in bed. However, the last thing you want is to expose your children to such danger. So, taking some self-defense classes could be a good idea. Just make sure you have all the best self-defense products in your bedroom so that you are ready to jump into action if anything untoward happens.

  • Install a floodlight response system

Even if you worked hard on making sure you selected the right property in the best location, you are still vulnerable to criminals. Installing a sensor floodlight system in your garden could be a wise move. It will illuminate any criminals if they try to get into your home without permission. That is usually enough to scare them away. However, it will also help the authorities to secure a conviction because you will get a much clearer image of the culprit on your CCTV.

We are confident your home will be as secure as possible if you follow all those tips. Most families never have to worry about burglars getting into their home, but sod’s law suggests it will happen to those who failed to prepare. So, now is the best time to head out and purchase some high-end security devices. To make savings, you should check online auction websites. However, it’s best to get your items from a reputable firm. That way, someone else will almost certainly deal with the installations.




How To Choose The Right Apartment For Your Family

These days, most families can’t afford to buy a property. Yes, there are some government schemes in place to help them on the property ladder. But people need to pay large deposits before getting considered for a mortgage. And that’s what helps them decide to stick with moving to rented homes instead.

If you’ve got a young family in tow, and you want to live near the city, you might be considering living in an apartment. They are cheaper to rent, and are plentiful inside inner-city areas. Today I will share with you some tips on how you can choose the right apartment for your family! Here is how to find the perfect place for your family:


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Which area do you want to live in?

The first thing to consider is where you and your family want to move. There is an almost endless list of places to consider. I say “almost” because your budget will restrict you to living in some areas only.

I recommend making a shortlist of places that you might want to consider moving to. That way, you’ve got plenty of options when it comes to searching for an apartment.

Do some research on the neighbourhood

Now that you have a list of possible areas to move to, the next stage is to spend some time researching them. For example, is crime a problem? Where are the nearest schools and what are they like? What types of people live in those areas? Are they affluent or home to blue-collar workers?

Apart from doing online research, I also suggest that you do a “drive-by” of each area at various times of the day. While the Internet is a good research source, you shouldn’t 100% rely on the information you read. It’s best to see the neighbourhood for yourself before making any final decisions.

For example, when I moved to a rental apartment, I made sure I checked the area out first. That’s because I wanted my family to live in a safe neighbourhood close to various amenities.

What facilities are on offer?

You might think that when you rent an apartment, all you’re paying for is the apartment. And that you’re also contributing to the upkeep of communal areas.

Some apartment blocks like Ultris Wynnfield Lakes also come with a whole host of features. A few places offer things like fitness centres, kids play areas and so forth. Granted, you might have to pay extra for the privilege of such facilities. But it’s OK if you plan to make good use of them.

Is the apartment well-maintained?

Before you decide to pay a deposit and move in, you need to check the level of maintenance in the apartment. Just because an apartment block might look modern and well-kept on the outside doesn’t mean it is on the inside!

Check with the management company or the landlord what major work got done recently. For example, they might have installed a new central heating system. That way, you can be sure that you won’t need to call them out to fix things all the time.